Jim interviews relationship photographer and creative producer Parris Whittingham.
Telling your story
I sat down with Parris Whittingham, relationship photographer and creative producer at From Parris with Love and talked about his business and his new, unique guide for brides called The Fearless Bride.
As with all my interviews, it is best to listen to the podcast above or subscribe on iTunes to get the full interview, but below is a highlight of the things we talk about.
– Parris’ background and how he got to where he is now
– The unique story of his experience as an exchange student that led him to photography
Get this… he didn’t even bring a camera on his year-long trip abroad! He was taken back that every other student had a camera, but had to stop every few minutes to snap photos, without really thinking what they were doing or really truly capturing the moment. What he realized what was happening was that he had an innate skill of capturing a moment in his head, a skill that would later translate to photography.
As he explains, as a photographer, the moment you hold a camera up to your face, you’re putting a barrier up in between yourself and your subject, so you need to overcome that.
How a selfless act of kindness from a hung over Icelandic student changed his life
While in Brazil, his group went on a weekend trip to an underground cave with a subterranean pool with a perfect shaft of light that would illuminate the entire body of water.
It was a special natural wonder, and one that he almost missed because of his lack of camera. In a story he’s never told before, you’ll find out how an excessive night of drinking by a friend led to a selfless act… one that would set him on the path to a career.
The perils and pressure of the wedding industry
– The technical part of shooting a wedding, one that most people can learn with experience
– The more important personal side when you “go off script”
– There are so many people that can technically shoot a wedding, and many people can shoot the same exact product — how do you become unique?
“I didn’t want that. I wanted to create something remarkable.”
– The attitude that will get you laughed out of the business
– The correlation between cost and results when hiring a photographer
“I look at these photos, and I don’t feel myself”
One day Parris received a fateful call from a stranger that completely transformed his business. As she spoke about her million dollar wedding, he realized that she didn’t want to hire him, but that the wedding had already occurred 2 years ago. She immediately had his attention. Her key line:
“I know that is me, but I don’t have a connection to that person in this photograph. And I don’t want to feel that way. I felt as if my wedding was hijacked.”
The Fearless Bride – A Manifesto
– We talk about the guide he wrote that helps couples find their vision
– The key to asking the right questions
– Getting beyond “good enough”
– “At a certain point passion isn’t enough”
– His most vital piece of technology
– Describe yourself in 3 words
– How Parris maintains work/life balance
– His most interesting travel destination (the answer will surprise you)
– Where in the world he would most like to go
– His advice to new photographers and entrepreneurs
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